Bear & Fifi Workshops

Reclaiming Erotic Power

A 90 minute virtual gathering for believers of magic, women, femmes, and anyone who wishes to challenge mainstream beliefs about eroticism and s3xuality.
Agenda:
THE HISTORIC & CURRENT CONTEXT:
How magic and practices associated with witchcraft have been vehicles for women’s independence for millennia.
Where our collective guilt and shame towards s3xual pleasure comes from, and why we are so afraid to explore it.
How the current cultural context continues to perpetuate antiquated social structures through gender binaries, gender-based and s3x-related violence, as well as "toxic" masculinity.
UNDERSTANDING THE SPECTRUM OF 3ROTICISM:
The submissive archetypes and standards you should be cognizant of falling under.
How K!nk can serve as a tool for embodying Dominance and turning the binary on its head.
Basics for a consistent Tantric practice to cultivate radical independence and a heightened intuition to free us from the dependence and romantic preoccupation that is often expected from femininity.
GROUP RITUAL:
A collective spell that de-pedestals masculine pleasure/power and feminine submission, and uplifts communal love.
Your instructors:
NYC (Lenape, Canarsie, and Wappinger Land) Local, Marisol Espinoza Viera, provides a variety of healing and spiritual services through her brand Marisol Vibración. This name was inspired by the vibrational energy that all her work puts out into the world—vibrations of love, healing, and empowerment. Her services include card readings; birth chart readings; yoga and Zumba fitness classes; candle magic; and spiritual cleanses and baths. She approaches her work from a queer, intersectional, and trauma-informed perspective. Marisol is committed to the collective healing and liberation of Black, trans, brown, and queer communities.
Sofia FiFi Delmar is a social impact entpreneur, community organizer, and bodywork practitioner based in New York City, Land of the Lenape. Born in NY Presbyterian hospital to Puerto Rican immigrant parents, Fifi is a bilingual NuyoRican, and the first urban bruja of her family’s lineage. She has been a spiritual guide for over ten years running groups, teaching secular meditation, and coaching on recovery from self-harm. They formed “Bear & Fifi Coaching” in Novemeber 2021, after a year of growing their online platform and discovering that Queer, Trans, BIPOC, and differently-abled people all over the world are severely lacking inclusive and affirming spaces to gather, and in 2022 she became a certified emotional bodyworker. Fifi’s work challenges social binaries and standards, addresses the personal barriers that limit human connection, and offers alternative ways of relating that center consent & safety, authenticity, and personal agency. Their goal is to empower individuals through radical relationships and expand the way human beings relate to themselves, one another, and the world around them.