Bear & Fifi Workshops

A 90 minute virtual gathering for believers of magic, women, femmes, and anyone who wishes to challenge mainstream beliefs about eroticism and s3xuality.
Agenda:
THE HISTORIC & CURRENT CONTEXT:
How magic and practices associated with witchcraft have been vehicles for women’s independence for mill...

Most of us learn that the only way to be in romantic and intimate relationships is within the parameters of compulsive monogamy - monogamy that is assumed for us based on structural expectations, instead of by our own choice.
The truth is, there are a variety of other relationship paradigms to ex...

Learn and integrate what is needed to feel confident stepping into challenging conversations.
"Breaking Barriers in Conflict & Communication" is a workshop for anyone who has difficulty communicating through relational conflict.
This workshop we will cover:
⭐️ Common blocks and barriers that h...

Boundary setting in romantic partnership(s) is often seen as rejection, enforcing rules, or relinquishing control, making it harder for people to honor their own boundaries in intimate partnerships and their partner’s, creating relationships that are colored with resentment and a lack of security...

Attachment theory is one way to describe how we relate when activated or in a trauma response and what informs that. Attachment styles are not fixed, absolute or an end all be all. Many people feel like they identify with anxious, avoidant, secure and fearful avoidant attachment style at differen...

The secret ingredient to having “mind-blowing” intimacy is feeling safe enough to let go. This workshop with Bear & Fifi will delve into ways we can tangibly cultivate new perspectives on intimacy with ourselves and/or our play partner(s).

Many of us are afraid of fully letting go when we engag...

This online workshop explores the depths of human connection and celebrates diversifying the way we relate to erotic intimacy.
This class is filled with thought-provoking discussions, and delves into the intricacies of eroticism, breaking down societal barriers and embracing the beauty of authen...

The idea of ending or even changing a relationship dynamic with someone is terrifying. Mostly because of the fear of losing someone we have grown intimate with and because of the oppressive structures around us, like Compulsory Monogamy, leading us to view breaking up, or even a relationship taki...

One of the first things we hear when folks are listing the reasons they don’t want to pursue consensual non-monogamy is, “I’m too jealous.” But, what is jealousy? Is it a permanent character trait or a feeling that may be indicative of something else? Where is it coming from and how can we naviga...

Our resistance to difficult conversations is completely natural. We don't instinctually want to make ourselves emotionally vulnerable or receive information that could make us defensive. However, when we avoid addressing things in our relationship(s) that are making us uncomfortable it often lead...